The journey begins early and continues for years.

Project Avary is not a one-time intervention. We begin walking alongside youth as early as age 8 and stay with them through their teens and into young adulthood (and often beyond, as they return as counselors). By intervening early, we support youth during their most formative years, helping them build strong foundations for emotional growth, self-worth, and connection. Our consistent presence builds deep trust and safety, supporting growth across every stage of development.

You are not alone.

There is deep power in hearing, “I’ve been through that too.” In fire circles and throughout our gatherings, youth see their own stories reflected back — often for the first time. They realize that others have walked the same path and are still standing strong. That recognition breaks isolation and opens the door to connection, healing, and growth. Today, 100% of our peer mentors and 90% of adult mentors share lived experience with parental incarceration.

True connection and belonging is where healing begins.

At Project Avary, youth are welcomed into a close-knit community of belonging, where mentors and peers truly understand their journey. These relationships, grounded in consistency and care, provide the foundation for healing. Here, youth can be themselves, speak their truth, and feel what it’s like to be seen, heard, and held without judgment.

From being cared for to caring for others.

As youth grow through they program, they begin to turn back in service and lead by guiding activities, mentoring younger participants, and modeling what it means to show up with empathy and strength. Leadership at Avary grows from within. It’s a natural extension of being seen, supported, and believed in. Over time, youth step into meaningful roles that help the next generation find their way. This full-circle process replaces cycles of trauma and incarceration with new cycles of healing, connection, and purpose.

Joy isn’t a break from the work — it’s part of it.

Running, laughing, splashing in the ocean…

…these moments of joy and play give youth what trauma often takes away. For those who have faced extreme hardship and had to grow up too quickly, play becomes a way to reconnect with their childhood, their bodies, and each other. It’s a powerful tool for healing, helping them express emotion, explore new possibilities, and build trust in a safe, supported environment. Joy opens the door to connection, resilience, and a sense of freedom.

Tools that support healing, relationships, and resilience.

Restorative practices and social-emotional learning are woven into every part of our program. Whether surfing, cooking a meal, or connecting in an online circle, youth learn to manage emotions, resolve conflict, set goals, and communicate with care. At the heart of this work are our Fire Circles (held both in person and online) where youth speak openly about their experiences, often for the first time. These moments build the emotional strength and confidence young people carry into every part of their lives.